A Grand Farewell to a Dallas Legend: Remembering Ebby Halliday Acers

In a city known for its larger-than-life personalities, few shone brighter or impacted more lives than Ebby Halliday Acers. Her memorial service, held on a poignant Thursday afternoon at the magnificent Park Cities Baptist Church, was an unparalleled testament to a life exceptionally lived. It was, as her pastor, Dr. Jim Denison, aptly described, a celebration truly befitting the “Duchess of Dallas Real Estate.” The sanctuary, designed to hold an astounding 3,000 attendees, was filled to capacity, with the balcony overflowing. An additional 1,000 seats were set up in the church hall, ready for the countless others who sought to pay their respects to this iconic figure. The overwhelming turnout was a powerful reflection of the profound mark Ebby left on Dallas and beyond.

A Service Steeped in Grace and Melody

The atmosphere within the church was one of profound reverence, interspersed with moments of joy and genuine warmth, mirroring Ebby’s own vibrant spirit. The afternoon service was beautifully orchestrated, featuring a rich tapestry of music that resonated through the hallowed halls. Among the most touching performances was that by the Happy Hill Farm Academy choir. This particular inclusion held deep significance, as Happy Hill Farm Academy was just one of the myriad charities that Ebby Halliday had championed and generously supported throughout her remarkable lifetime. Their angelic voices served as a poignant reminder of her expansive philanthropic heart and her unwavering commitment to making a tangible difference in the lives of children and communities.

Tributes from Her Inner Circle and Beyond

Speaker after speaker took to the podium, each sharing personal anecdotes and heartfelt recollections that painted a vivid, multi-faceted portrait of Ebby. Their words collectively underscored her profound influence as a business pioneer, a compassionate mentor, a dedicated community leader, and a cherished friend.

Mary Frances Burleson: A Legacy of Mentorship and Entrepreneurship

Kicking off the series of tributes was Mary Frances Burleson, the esteemed President and CEO of Ebby Halliday Realtors. Her story was a powerful testament to Ebby’s unique ability to spot talent and nurture potential. Mary Frances began her journey with the company as a temporary secretary, earning a modest $2.50 an hour back then. It was Ebby herself who recognized her promise and asked her to stay on permanently, a decision that would shape both their lives and the future of Dallas real estate. Mary Frances affectionately described her time under Ebby’s guidance as her “graduate school,” highlighting the invaluable lessons in business, leadership, and life that she gleaned from her mentor. Her deep-seated love for the real estate industry, and especially the art of selling, was something she attributed directly to Ebby’s influence. “My husband always said, once I looked over that garden wall, I was hooked,” Mary Frances shared, emphasizing how Ebby’s passion became her own.

Laura Bush: The “First Lady” of Dallas Real Estate

Adding another layer of distinction to the service, the memory of Ebby Halliday was even honored by former First Lady Laura Bush, who herself had affectionately christened Ebby the “First Lady of Dallas Real Estate.” Mrs. Bush eloquently remarked, “Ebby was the first First Lady of Dallas,” drawing a charming parallel between the nation’s highest office and Ebby’s enduring reign over the local real estate landscape. She fondly recalled Ebby “spending much time at her own White House, the one we know so well at the corner of Northwest Highway and Preston,” a reference to Ebby’s iconic corporate headquarters that became a landmark in its own right.

Mrs. Bush also shared a humorous and heartwarming anecdote that perfectly captured Ebby’s humble and down-to-earth nature. Although former President George W. Bush could not attend, Laura Bush relayed his sentiment upon learning that Ebby kept a photo of him taped to her icebox. He had joked that “that was a lot better than most people, who keep my photo in a shoebox,” eliciting chuckles from the congregation. This small detail spoke volumes about Ebby’s personal connections and her genuine affection for those she admired. The Bush family’s respect for Ebby ran deep, with Laura Bush quoting her mother-in-law, Barbara Bush: “My mother-in-law Barbara Bush says, ‘Ebby was Dallas.’ She was a true patriot.” This powerful statement underscored Ebby’s integral role in shaping the very identity and spirit of the city.

Esteemed Guests and Industry Peers

The breadth of Ebby’s influence was clearly visible in the distinguished attendees who gathered to pay their respects. Among the local dignitaries were Mayor Mike Rawlings, Dallas Cowboys executive Charlotte Anderson and her mother, Gene Jones, and Jennifer Staubach Gates, whose legendary father, Roger Staubach, had shared many a spotlight with Ebby over the years. The assembly also included a veritable who’s who of high-powered real estate brokers and agents from across Dallas, reflecting the profound respect she commanded within her industry. Allie Beth and Pierce Allman, Sheila Rice, Virginia Cook, and a significant contingent from Dave Perry-Miller, including Dave himself, were all present, acknowledging the woman who had not only built an empire but had also inspired generations of real estate professionals.

Don Glendenning: A Champion of Integrity and Humility

Next to share his reflections was Ebby’s long-time attorney and friend, Don Glendenning. He recounted a memorable trip to Washington, D.C., where he and Ebby went to receive the prestigious Horatio Alger Award. Glendenning humorously recalled that few outside of Texas had heard of Ebby until she took the stage. “Then we all became minor rock stars,” he quipped. Ebby, speaking without notes and well over her allotted time, captivated the audience so completely that they didn’t just give a standing ovation, but a “LEAPING ovation.” This story vividly illustrated her magnetic presence and ability to command a room with her authentic charisma. Glendenning also revealed a playful secret about another Horatio Alger honoree, Roger Staubach: “Ebby had a little crush on him,” further highlighting her endearing, human qualities.

Joan Patmore: The Beloved “Fun Aunt”

Ebby’s niece, Joan Patmore, offered a tender and often humorous glimpse into her aunt’s personal life. Ebby, who had no children of her own, “lassoed” former FBI agent and lawyer Maurice Acers when she was 54, in what would be her first and only marriage. Yet, her heart was boundless, extending immense devotion to her nieces, nephews, step-children, and entire extended family. She was a constant, supportive presence, attending countless sports games, school plays, graduations, and family celebrations. Joan described her as the “spice” in their lives, the ultimate “fun” aunt who would often arrive with Ebby’s adored ice cream and a plethora of toppings to share after an open house. She also humorously recalled the time Ebby accidentally took her underage niece to an R-rated movie, leading to “embarrassing giggling” but a commitment to stay “for the whole movie.”

Joan then posed a question to the audience: who had ever had the “white-knuckle experience” of riding in a car with Ebby? Laughter rippled through the church as she described Ebby’s heavy foot, often claiming to be the first person stopped on the Dallas North Tollway. But what was truly embarrassing, Joan recounted, was when Ebby would put her famous Cadillac into “park” at red lights and step out of the car – “to pick up litter off the median.” This poignant detail perfectly encapsulated Ebby’s unique blend of civic pride, personal responsibility, and utterly charming eccentricity.

Ron Burgert: A Family Legacy in Business

Concluding the heartfelt tributes was Ebby Halliday’s CFO, Ron Burgert. Ron, too, was woven into the fabric of the Ebby Halliday family, his father having worked for the legendary founder. He began by good-naturedly noting that both Mary Frances and Laura Bush had already captured much of what he intended to say. Still, Ron had the sanctuary in stitches as he recounted a Dallas roast for T. Boone Pickens. During the event, Roger Staubach had jokingly remarked on T. Boone’s troubles – falling oil prices, personal issues – then declared, “I’ve got the perfect solution! Ebby is still available!” At this moment, Ron recalled, Ebby herself had risen from her seat and waved happily, exclaiming, “Here I am!” This spontaneous, joyful response perfectly illustrated her quick wit and enduring spirit.

The collective image painted by all the speakers was that of a true legend, someone who felt like “everybody’s best friend.” Ron shared his deep personal connection: “There are a few times in your life that you get to meet a legend. I’ve worked with a legend for the last 39 years.” He emphasized that Ebby treated everyone with the same respect and dignity, “whether it was the president of the U.S. or someone who had just gotten off a freight train.” He also echoed Mary Frances Burleson’s earlier story about Ebby’s renowned dedication to handwritten thank you notes, remarking on how she would even respond to a thank you note with another thank you note. “I have a whole drawerful,” he humorously admitted, symbolizing the depth of her personal connections and her unwavering commitment to gratitude.

A Life Defined by Generosity and Principle

A recurring theme throughout the service was Ebby’s incredible generosity and her unwavering motto: “Do something for somebody every day.” This wasn’t merely a platitude; it was a guiding principle that she embodied through countless acts of philanthropy. One notable example was her deep involvement with Dallas Baptist University. Three years prior, at the remarkable age of 101, Ebby made a substantial three-year financial commitment to a capital campaign there. Dr. Jim Denison emphasized the profound nature of this pledge: “At 101, she made a commitment which she fully intended to fulfill. And she did.” This act alone spoke volumes about her vision, her enduring commitment to education, and her sheer force of will.

Don Glendenning eloquently summarized Ebby’s life as the perfect example of how a person of goodwill, integrity, insight, and industry can achieve greatness, irrespective of their modest beginnings. Ebby truly lived the Golden Rule, consistently prioritizing the well-being of others. She believed in doing good for the benefit of others first, recognizing that her own success would naturally follow. This selfless approach was not just a business strategy but the very essence of her being, inspiring countless individuals to emulate her ethical and compassionate leadership.

Echoes of Admiration: The Standing Ovations

The profound respect and love for Ebby Halliday were palpably demonstrated through a series of powerful standing ovations that punctuated the memorial service. The first was ignited by Mary Frances Burleson, prompting the entire sanctuary and balcony to rise in a rousing, heartfelt applause for Ebby. It wouldn’t have been surprising if the hundreds listening to the live-streaming on CBS had also instinctively stood and clapped in unison, such was the emotional resonance of the moment. The second spontaneous ovation followed Ron Burgert’s touching tribute, proving every bit as robust and genuine. The third and final standing ovation came after a truly beautiful postlude, “Symphony No. 5: Toccata.” As the music soared, a huge screen rolled down in front of the altar, projecting a compelling video retrospective of Ebby’s extraordinary life. The grand finale of this visual tribute was a heartwarming clip of Ebby herself, strumming her trademark ukulele and singing “Happy Days Are Here Again”—the very tune she once famously serenaded Warren Buffett with. It was a perfect, joyous send-off, encapsulating her enduring optimism and her zest for life.

A Lingering Presence: The Farewell

As the service concluded, attendees slowly filed out of the church, many with dark glasses attempting to conceal teary eyes. Church personnel thoughtfully handed out beautiful, white embossed cards in Ebby’s memory, a small token of remembrance. Outside, Channel 4 had a camera stationed, capturing a few dignitaries, but most people quietly made their way home. As the writer crossed Northwest Highway, passing the Secret Service agents waiting for Laura Bush, a sudden gust of wind picked up. It was almost perfectly timed, a gentle current to dry the lingering tears, a moment of profound comfort. As her niece, Joan Patmore, had so eloquently stated, “Ebby was there with her, looking over her shoulder.” Indeed, Ebby’s presence was felt by all—the eternal best friend. She seemed to be all around, her spirit embracing her vast, beautiful family that truly spanned an entire city. It was as if she had stirred up just enough wind to offer solace, to dry every tear, and to whisper a final message: simply “be happy,” for a life so extraordinarily well-lived.

Ebby Halliday’s Enduring Legacy

Ebby Halliday Acers was more than just a successful real estate mogul; she was a force of nature, a mentor, a philanthropist, and a symbol of integrity and kindness. Her journey from modest beginnings to becoming one of Dallas’s most revered figures is a testament to the power of hard work, unwavering ethical principles, and a genuine love for people. Her legacy is etched not only in the foundations of the real estate empire she built but, more importantly, in the countless lives she touched, the communities she uplifted, and the inspiring example she set for generations. The memorial service was not merely a farewell but a resounding affirmation of a life that will continue to inspire, reminding us all to “do something for somebody every day” and to live with the same passion, generosity, and joy that defined the unforgettable Ebby Halliday.

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